• Do you feel that you are the reason you do not want to be married?

  • Do you feel that you are pulling your marriage backward?

  • Are you confused why you and your partner struggle to find common ground?

  • Do you feel that you communicate love differently from your spouse?

  • Do you feel that your expectations of a spouse are farfetched?

  • Do you find it difficult to envision yourself in a successful marriage?

  • Do you feel that you are suited for leading others but cannot solve your marriage?

Discover how the way you communicate love impacts your marriage outcome.


we're Gary & Julie Gallimore

We came to a point in our marriage where we began to diverge. We suddenly realized that we were strangers to each other.

But it didn’t suddenly happen.

Overtime we matured and became older and became more solidified in our personalities and traits, but we never really took a stock of exactly who we were. This made it difficult to connect on what seemed like simple matters.

We eventually realized that our spouse needed someone who would complement and support them. We both had to answer the question, “Am I that person for my spouse?”

The only way we could answer this was to put a stamp on who we were as individuals. Once we solved that puzzle, it became easier to be our spouse’s best partner.
Julie and Gary Gallimore

Which is why we created
Discovering the One You Want to Marry course.

If you are a leader who is married, not yet married, or contemplating ending your marriage, we help you discover/rediscover who you are so that you are prepared to enjoy a successful marriage.

These remarkable lessons will help you:

  • Discover who you are to help you contribute to a successful marriage.

  • Learn techniques to help you understand how you communicate love that will secure your marriage.

  • Step-by-step process to help you overcome personal challenges that prevent you from being in a successful marriage.

Still have questions?

  • Who is this course for?

    This course is for those who are married or not yet married. We discuss the importance of knowing who you are so that you can contribute effectively to your marriage.

  • What if I’m not married?

    Marriage is still an aspiration for many and many step into marriage ill-equipped to make positive contribution. This course helps you check your attitude towards marriage.

  • What if I am already married?

    This course is for those who are married or not yet married. If you are already married, this course will help you understand your own behaviors in your marriage and how you can make positive contribution to your marriage being successful.

  • Can I enroll at anytime or is there a specific start date?

    There is no specific start date. You can enroll whenever you choose.

  • What if I am not happy with the course?

    To help us serve you and others better in the future we ask that you kindly take time to explain to us in detail what you did not like about the course. We will then offer you 100% money back.

  • What if I need more resources and support than the course?

    You can take advantage of other courses, or sign up for coaching sessions. We also have a podcast that discusses several topics that support leaders in their marriage.

  • Do I have to take the course with my spouse?

    No you do not. For this course, in particular, it is a good idea to take the course individually and then share your responses with your spouse.

  • Do my spouse and I have to pay for two separate courses?

    No, you and your spouse can share one account that gives you access on demand.

  • If I have other questions that are not answered here, whom should I contact?

    Send us an email at info@leadingandlove.com and we will answer any questions that you might have.

Are you ready to discover yourself & how you communicate love?

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Option 3
Try to discover yourself without proper context and understanding of the ideal outcomes.
Complete one of the many online self-assessments that do not provide you with a blueprint of how you can ensure ideal outcomes.
Enroll in the Discovering The One You Want to Marry course to discover who you are and how to prepare yourself to guarantee a successful marriage.