Our Story

We met in college, fell in love quickly, married within a year, and 18 months later—we were already raising a family.

We excelled professionally, hit major milestones, and checked all the boxes of “success”… except one. Behind the scenes, our marriage was slowly falling apart.

By the time we realized it, the distance between us felt overwhelming.

When we looked closely, we saw how far we had drifted from the foundation we built when we married young—at 19 and 22. We had grown, yes… but not always together. We ignored problems, avoided hard conversations, mismanaged stress, and let career pressures take priority over connection.

We faced every kind of challenge—mental, emotional, financial, and physical. And for the first time in a long time, we faced them together.

That’s when we created something that changed our marriage forever: a marital strategy.

We rebuilt our marriage step by step, conversation by conversation, habit by habit. And what we learned was too valuable to keep to ourselves.

Why Leading & Love?

We’ve lived through the breaking—and the rebuilding.

We know the exhaustion.

We know the doubt.

And we know the transformation that’s possible when two people decide to fight for each other with a plan, not just hope.

If we could save our marriage, we believe you can save yours too.

And we’re here to help you do it—strategically, intentionally, and with love.

We have your back!

We help couples cultivate excellence in their marriage and family, empowering them to show up as stronger, healthier leaders in every area of life.