Welcome to Leading & Love

Your portal to a successful marriage.


We are Gary and Julie.

Years ago we found ourselves continuously pursuing excellence in our professional careers, but not in our marriage. As competitive and successful as we were outside of our home, we should have naturally had a strong marriage, right? WRONG!

I (Julie) was exhausted and said “See ya, I’m out”. Divorce seemed like the only and BEST option. But then we said let’s try one last time. From that last try we realized we had strayed far away from the foundation upon which we built our marriage when we were just 19 and 22.

We realized we’d messed up some things and had to get over quite a few humps – mental, emotional, financial and even physical. So we created a marital strategy–just like you have to create a strategy to secure the “bag” you have to create a strategy to secure your relationship.

We now continuously refine our strategy and pursue excellence in all areas of our lives, not just our professional lives. We decided the method we used to save our marriage was just too good NOT to share!

We’ve partnered with licensed professionals to create life changing products and services that will help you build or restore, and maintain the grounds on which you built your love.


Leading and Love supports leaders in their marriage. We believe that marriage is a critical foundation in preserving humanity and advancing society.

Marriage itself brings its own set of challenges. Couple that with leadership outside the home and the responsibilities become even more overwhelming.

Leading and Love provides valuable resources to help you grow your marriage as your pursue and excel in other leadership roles.


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    Support leaders in their marriages.

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    Help leaders fulfil their responsibility of protecting their marriage, their family, and their legacy.

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    Empower leaders in being fulfilling husbands and wives, while excelling in leadership outside of the home.


We understand that the concept of strategy might throw you off because we’ve been trained to think that when it comes to our relationships, it should all be romance.

If you’ve been married for just a short while, you already know that not everything will be romantic. That’s fine! Because the love is still there and the opportunity for an excellent, satisfying life with the person you adore is at your fingertips.


We’ve assembled a team of psychologists, therapists, counsellors and relationship experts that stand behind us as we guide you and your spouse in continuing to pursue excellence in your marriage and family.

You are a successful leader. Your marriage and family can be successful too.