• Do you feel as if your couple is not in control of the direction of your marriage?

  • Are you concerned about the future of your marriage?

  • Is your marriage falling short of your expectations?

  • Do you feel as if your marriage is lacking growth in certain areas?

  • Do you want to know how to guarantee a successful marriage?

You might be surprised how much more enjoyable your marriage can be if you and your spouse design the experience that you want to have.



Hey,

we're Gary & Julie Gallimore

We came to a point in our marriage where we began to diverge. We suddenly realized that we were strangers to each other.

But it didn’t suddenly happen.

Overtime we matured and became older and became more solidified in our personalities and traits, but we never really took a stock of exactly who we were. This made it difficult to connect on what seemed like simple matters.

We eventually realized that our spouse needed someone who would complement and support them. We both had to answer the question, “Am I that person for my spouse?”

The only way we could answer this was to put a stamp on who we were as individuals. Once we solved that puzzle, it became easier to be our spouse’s best partner.

Which is why we created the
Project Marriage - Designing your MX course.


If you are a leader who is married, not yet married, or contemplating ending your marriage, we help you understand the value of designing your marriage.

These remarkable lessons will help you:

  • Understand how to design a successful marriage.

  • Learn how to evaluate your marriage.

  • Understand the types of changes that impact the direction of your marriage.

Still have questions?

  • Who is this course for?

    This course is for those who are married, not yet married, or contemplating a divorce. We show you how to design your marriage for success. Even if you are contemplating divorce, this course can help you recreate your marriage experience.

  • What if I’m not married?

    Marriage is still an aspiration for many. It is a good idea to get a good grasp on what you want your marriage to look like because your happiness depends on whether or not your expectations are met.

  • What if I am already married?

    This course is for those who are married, not yet married, or contemplating a divorce. If you are already married, this course will help you reaffirm or recreate a successful marriage.

  • Can I enroll at anytime or is there a specific start date?

    There is no specific start date. You can enroll whenever you choose.

  • What if I am not happy with the course?

    To help us serve you and others better in the future we ask that you kindly take time to explain to us in detail what you did not like about the course. We will then offer you 100% money back.

  • What if I need more resources and support than the course?

    You can take advantage of other courses, or sign up for coaching sessions. We also have a podcast that discusses several topics that support leaders in their marriage.

  • Do I have to take the course with my spouse?

    No you do not. For this course, in particular, it is a good idea to take the course individually and then share your responses with your spouse.

  • Do my spouse and I have to pay for two separate courses?

    No, you and your spouse can share one account that gives you access on demand.

  • If I have other questions that are not answered here, whom should I contact?

    Send us an email at info@leadingandlove.com and we will answer any questions that you might have.

Are you ready to make a long-term investment in your most important relationship?

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Leave your marriage up to chance. 
Try adhoc things and see how they turn out.
Enroll in the Project Marriage - Designing your MX course to learn how to define the direction of your marriage.

  • Take Course Material Offline

  • Keep track of your progress

  • Learn practical concepts to enhance your marriage

Course curriculum

  • 1

    Introduction and welcome

    • Introduction and welcome
  • 2

    The design process

    • The design process
  • 3

    The GRMAC model

    • The GRMAC Model
  • 4

    Your vision

    • Your vision
  • 5

    Your marriage creed

    • Your marriage creed
  • 6

    Activities to get to your goals

    • Activities to get to your goals
  • 7

    Tasks - Who does what?

    • Tasks - Who does what?
  • 8

    Preparing for your future marriage

    • Preparing for your future marriage
  • 9

    The Big 5 Rationale

    • The Big 5 Rationale
  • 10

    Instigating and responding to pivots in your marriage

    • Instigating and responding to pivots in your marriage
  • 11

    What is a pivot?

    • What is a pivot
  • 12

    Reasons for initiating a pivot

    • Reasons for initiating a pivot
  • 13

    Rules for pivoting effectively

    • Rules for pivoting effectively
  • 14

    Assessing your marriage - Intro

    • Assessing in your marriage - Intro
  • 15

    Assessing your marriage - INTIMACY

    • Assessing your marriage - INTIMACY
  • 16

    Assessing your marriage - MANAGING CHANGES

    • Assessing your marriage - MANAGING CHANGES
  • 17

    Assessing your marriage - YOUR COMMUNITY

    • Assessing your marriage - YOUR COMMUNITY
  • 18

    Assessing your marriage - RESILIENCE

    • Assessing your marriage - RESILIENCE
  • 19

    Assessing your marriage - PROSPERITY

    • Assessing your marriage - PROSPERITY
  • 20

    Assessing your marriage - Wrap-up

    • Assessing your marriage - Wrap-up
  • 21

    Closing remarks

    • Closing remarks